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The Hindu (Vedic) wedding ceremony

SAPTA PADI (SEVEN SACRED STEPS)
The couple hold each others hands and walk in a line taking seven steps. A vow is taken for each step.

1. Let us live with honour and respect. Let us walk together so we get food.
2. Let us be happy and enjoy life. Let us walk together so we get strength.
3. Let us share joys and pains together. Let us walk together so we get wealth.
4. Let us not forget parents and elders. Let us walk together so we get happiness.
5. Let us observe all acts of charity. Let us walk together so we have a family.
6. Let us live a long and peaceful life. Let us walk together so we have joy.
7. Let us be friends with love and sacrifice. Let us walk together so we have friendship

After the seventh step the groom says "With seven steps we become friends. Let me reach your friendship. Let me not be severed from your friendship. Let your friendship not be severed from me." The Saptapadi ceremony concludes with a prayer that the union is indissoluble.

HRIDAYA SPARSHA (TOUCHING OF THE HEARTS)
Next the husband touches the heart of the bride reaching over her right shoulder, with the words: "Into my heart will I take thy heart: thy mind shall dwell In my mind: in my world thou shall rejoice with all thy heart; May the Lord join thee to me." The heart is the centre of feelings. By touching it the husband symbolically tries to rouse them to make them flow out to meet his own heart and thus unite them in the world of love

SAUBHAGYA CHINNA (MARKS OF AUSPICIOUSNESS)
The above pledges having been made, the groom puts a red mark on her forehead and places the sindoor powder in the parting of her hair. This is the traditional mark of the Hindu married woman whose husband is alive. The groom requests that she keeps this mark on her head signifying her marriage to him.

The brilliant red vermilion powder represents the life giving blood that flows in us all. By anointing the bride with the vermilion, the groom is promising to cherish her and protect her as if she were his own life. He also promises to protect her with his own life, At this time, he also offers her an auspicious necklace - Mangalsutra - to signify their marriage. The Mangal Sutra represents the couple's togetherness, love and sacred union.

PURNA AAHUTI (LAST OFFERING)
After these rituals are completed, the couple sit down and make an offering to the fire together, this symbolizes their first act of worship as a married couple and the official end of the ceremony.

AASHIRWAAD (BLESSINGS)
The priest prays for blessings from the supreme Lord for the well being of the newly weds and of those assembled. Then friends and relatives sprinkle rice and flowers on the couple. The couple touch the feet of their parents and the elders in both the families thereby demonstrating their respect for them and at the same time obtaining their blessings.

SHAANTI PAATH (PRAYER FOR PEACE)
The prayer is recited at the end of all Vedic ceremonies. It is a prayer that perfects peace and tranquillity may reign throughout the universe.

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